Some days are not meant to be celebrated

I hate when people don't understand why you do not make big deals out of some days. For some of us, days that are supposed to be happy (to others) have been taken over by sad and not to be celebrated things which take precedence.. Its not being rude, selfish or any other adjective its just how things are.. I don't feel I'm missing anything so why should it even matter...  For me days to be celebrated are just ordinary days made into extraordinary days not the ones the calendar says to celebrate...

It's the same reason I LOVE the christmas season but I hate the day... Its all the build up to a day that turns out to be rather ordinary..

Course now days there just isn't much to celebrate... Maybe 2009 will be better...